An unnoticed crime...

An unnoticed crime... 

In this fast forward era with rapid urbanization and development of big cities and towns, the graph of crime in today's society is sharply on the rise  Living has become unpleasant.. It's a fact that till I would be completing this article don't  know how many life would be battling somewhere, at some corner how many poors would be bullied and how many girls would be raped???.. But their is deep relaxation that an antidote is prepared of these illness.. Atleast these cases are registered as a crime but what about An unnoticed crime???. 

The crime which I am referring is growing steeply in our nation. This crime has broken records of brutality among all. Here no one is harassed, tortured or bullied physically and so no scars is visible neither a blood clot. It's most hazardous as victim is internaly slaughted and broken .woefully this unnoticed crime doesn't have any antiseptic for recovery it only has impact on heart....sufferer's of this crime are  people of our age group.. And criminals are none another than our own beloved provoken  parents.yes your guesses are right I am talking about helicopter parenting. It's stand for those parents who are extra possesive towards their children basically regarding education.. And keep hovering above their children similar as helicopter. No doubts parents are finest creature on this planet and they will be standing in every hardship. They are the philanthropist who addresses all luxuries to their kids. They wish that all dreams which they failed to do..their child must accomplish , and the problem start at very that moment when parents start  imposing their own dreams to these innocents.

Take an example of gardener who sows the seed affectionately and cares it, provide all types of nutrients to it.. Seeds grows into sapling and then turns to a plant, a stage of flowering. Gardener eagerly awaited for this stage and now he started over protecting and nourishing it.. This overcare may result in death of plant... Similar is the case with the parents.. Their extra care and precautions results in toxicity. In this 21st century, everyone claim to be with modern thoughts without any stereotype mentality. In most of public gathering we have heard our relatives saying how much freedom they have provided to their kids. Being modern is misunderstood by many... Moderenizaion doesn't only limits to wearing branded clothes or traveling with expensive cars. One has to update themself from their orthodox mindset which has become a life taking loop in front of their blooming buds, a shackle which has chained their own kids leg to run in open field and a knife which has chopped the wings making them handicap to explore many opportunities awaiting on their paths.According to survey,In india yet many parents are their who over look the path which are less trodden and love their child to enter in crowd so that their future is SECURED.. 

It's appreciable and natural that every parent worry about future of their children. But it's a duty of parents too that they don't straightly impose there rules and plan's on these tender souls ..Around 70 percent parents kill their kids dream and brutally drag them into small slum of orthodox mentality . After battling, Some young mind except it as their faith and suffocates their entire life in this swamp..and many out of them  get tired and own different means to struggle.  In that some quit their life and some falls in prey of depression and hallucinations via taking drugs. This cruel world labeled them as cowards and suciders without knowing the history. It's a bitter truth that this is a well planned murder by parents, relatives and this illiterate society. .Congrats, our nation is at top list for attempting sucides and out of which 80 percent are genious minds which wish to flourish and bloom somewhere else but due to fear of society and pressure of parents they try to adjust .. Some survive and some quit.. Its hard to believe that same mother who carried her child for 9 months ,same father who days and nights worked to address all happiness to his kids, the same warm hands which was always lifted for tap on back are now stamping their own kids by making their life suffocating and miserable  .They become so much ambitious that they want their child to somehow crack the exams. Win the race.,lift the trophy and result of this much pressure is ultimate  choking ...and everything comes to end. Though the crimes are mostly done by holy hands of the parents but mastermind behind this plan is I and you who make this entire society .The one statement log kya kahenge?? What every one will think??  Bloody this statement begins the planning of crime..
"An unnoticed  crime "....And provkes the parents to turn into murderer ,kill the dreams and shackle them inside small  crowded world. They think entire society will mock at us if my daughter dance before the crowd, if my son cooks or if my daughter shouts till midnight in court and so and so... Bloody hell with this mentality.. Press a pause and think for while if Sachin wouldn't have  played for nation, if lata mangeshkar wouldn't sing or if chef sanjeev kapoor's parents  too thought  that society will mock at them if there son cook... 
An open question to this entire orthodox society ...what is harm if a child voulnteers to travel the road which is less trodden???
It's my soft request to all parents to stop making their children as followers inspire them to be trend setters... Don't become so much blind and deaf  that you yourself unintentionally chop the wings of your stars, which you only have nourished... Don't become so harsh in imposing your dreams and rules that child Start feeling suffocated and insecure.. Try to understand that career don't only revolve around proffession such as teachers, doctors or an engineer.. There are still many opportunities awaiting on their way... Do participate in their dreams and give them courage so that they can shine more and touch the glories of sky of untrodden paths..
Here I beg to all  unauthorized  counsellors to stop giving free advice.. Because your advice is life threatening for many.... 
It's also a clear warning to parents and their kids to be aware about these masterminds behind "An unnoticed crime "..

Thank you.  

An unnoticed crime 

By-Gargi 


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I hereby wanted to share my self written poem which states the condition of girl who is sufferer of this crime...